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The power of choice
This blog is inspired by a short story by Curtis Sittenfeld- see below. There are 8 billion people on the planet...and you can choose who you want to pay close attention to you listen to for advice you want as a role model you want as a shining star on your horizon gives advice on you how to live is good for your soul and mind offers the best wisdom, offers the best advice. offers the best salve and comfort So seek out the people who you want to be around This blog was ins
Nicola Shelley
2 days ago1 min read


Bye! How to leave well.
So long, farewell, auf wiedersehen goodbye! No, no, not me - I'm not going anywhere, but I am keen to share my thoughts on the process of...
Nicola Shelley
May 31, 20242 min read


Cordially speaking, elderflower, a yearly reminder.
I just love this time of year. If I were able to press pause it would be right about now when the green is vivid and the nights are...
Nicola Shelley
May 10, 20231 min read


Imposter syndrome and 6 top tips for dealing with it.
As a coach working with people going through life's transitions, career changes crop up often and along with that some people then...
Nicola Shelley
Mar 7, 20235 min read


My seasonal good wishes to you!
A very short blog just before Christmas to wish all of you a very happy and relaxing time over the Christmas/festive period if you are...
Nicola Shelley
Dec 18, 20222 min read


My Favourite 'Go To' People
I'd like to share some of my absolute favourite people, talks, website, posts and podcasts that I turn to often and frequently share with...
Nicola Shelley
Nov 14, 20223 min read


The Reticular Activating System
A short explanation post about the Reticular Activating System (R.A.S.) My work in N.L.P. frequently comes across this rather specific...
Nicola Shelley
Oct 24, 20222 min read


2021's Best Bits!
A look back at some of the posts from this year which show just how much can change and equally, how much can stay the same, in a year....
Nicola Shelley
Dec 3, 20212 min read


Redefining 'Empty Nest'
Young people leaving home? Feeling a bit adrift? Sad? Lost? Anxious? This blog is for you! September has swung around again, with a...
Nicola Shelley
Sep 1, 20215 min read


Identity- Just Who Am I?
A blog inspired by James Clear's quote from his book 'Atomic Habits' 'The more you let a single belief define you, the less capable you...
Nicola Shelley
Jun 28, 20212 min read


Career paths: alternative approaches to looking at them.
This blog is for you if you are just starting out or perhaps considering a change of career later on in life. Actually it could be...
Nicola Shelley
Jun 15, 20213 min read


Leaving Well- what do you mean?
I thought it would be a good idea to have a few FAQ on the event Leaving Well which is happening soon - 5th or 12th December 2020. What...
Nicola Shelley
Nov 9, 20202 min read


Take a Deep Breath
It really was not that long ago when, if someone said said to me, 'Relax and breathe' it would trigger quite the opposite reaction. I'd...
Nicola Shelley
Nov 5, 20202 min read


Values - our backbone
This blog is for anyone who is feeling a bit out of kilter and just not feeling quite right in themselves for some unknown reason. It...
Nicola Shelley
Aug 13, 20203 min read


A surge and spewing of feelings!
The announcement of easing of lock down restrictions has brought up all sorts of things!
...including some pent up feelings
Nicola Shelley
Jun 26, 20202 min read


A leopard can't change its spots - or can it?
A leopard can’t change its spots… or can it? My latest (revamped!) blog looks at a well-known phrase, often recited, frequently to...
Nicola Shelley
Jun 20, 20142 min read
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