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The ten: ten: ten!
It's getting close to the busy time of the year and my word are we being bombarded by stuff to do and things to buy and people to be! It's also a time when we might make a mistake, an omission, send an email to the wrong person/group... Often when this happens we re-run the scenario and go round and round in circles making the mistake seem a lot worse than it actually is . As a coach I don't think we need to be quite so hard on ourselves. We are human - more on that below.*
Nicola Shelley
Nov 17, 20252 min read


The power of choice
This blog is inspired by a short story by Curtis Sittenfeld- see below. There are 8 billion people on the planet...and you can choose who you want to pay close attention to you listen to for advice you want as a role model you want as a shining star on your horizon gives advice on you how to live is good for your soul and mind offers the best wisdom, offers the best advice. offers the best salve and comfort So seek out the people who you want to be around This blog was ins
Nicola Shelley
Nov 3, 20251 min read


Why aren't you doing it now?
And just like that… it's been a hot minute. I stepped away from coaching for a while — mainly due to family matters. My mum died in...
Nicola Shelley
Jul 29, 20251 min read


Something New Is Coming!
For the last few months I have been working in conjunction with a very good friend of mine, Claire, on a new project. It is exciting,...
Nicola Shelley
Jan 8, 20252 min read


Important message!
If you're going through a time of change, this message is for you! By change, I mean: - Starting a weight loss programme - Moving house -...
Nicola Shelley
Jul 3, 20242 min read


Bye! How to leave well.
So long, farewell, auf wiedersehen goodbye! No, no, not me - I'm not going anywhere, but I am keen to share my thoughts on the process of...
Nicola Shelley
May 31, 20242 min read


Warm wishes for the season!
A short and sweet post to wish you all a very Happy Christmas and to those in the Northern hemisphere Happy Winter Solstice. A friend who...
Nicola Shelley
Dec 21, 20231 min read


Cordially speaking, elderflower, a yearly reminder.
I just love this time of year. If I were able to press pause it would be right about now when the green is vivid and the nights are...
Nicola Shelley
May 10, 20231 min read


Imposter syndrome and 6 top tips for dealing with it.
As a coach working with people going through life's transitions, career changes crop up often and along with that some people then...
Nicola Shelley
Mar 7, 20235 min read


10 years!
Happy 10 year Anniversary to my business! If it were a 10 year birthday for a child there would have been over the years: Awe and...
Nicola Shelley
Feb 9, 20231 min read


Slowly, slowly getting on with it.
Firstly this is more of an update than a blog but there are a few key things you might be able to take away from it! Just before...
Nicola Shelley
Feb 1, 20232 min read


My seasonal good wishes to you!
A very short blog just before Christmas to wish all of you a very happy and relaxing time over the Christmas/festive period if you are...
Nicola Shelley
Dec 18, 20222 min read


My Favourite 'Go To' People
I'd like to share some of my absolute favourite people, talks, website, posts and podcasts that I turn to often and frequently share with...
Nicola Shelley
Nov 14, 20223 min read


The Reticular Activating System
A short explanation post about the Reticular Activating System (R.A.S.) My work in N.L.P. frequently comes across this rather specific...
Nicola Shelley
Oct 24, 20222 min read


100 Days to chip away!
Four days ago a great blog dropped into my inbox from Tomas Svitorka. He's also a coach and I follow his blogs. I like his style - good,...
Nicola Shelley
Sep 26, 20221 min read


Why your paper round was important
A blog sharing thoughts about all those jobs you have done that don't make it on to the c.v. and why they still matter! Our c.v.s have...
Nicola Shelley
Jun 2, 20223 min read


A Friday Afternoon and the Kindness of Strangers.
This is a blog about the events, and more importantly, the people I met a few weeks ago on a Friday afternoon. I've told several people...
Nicola Shelley
May 25, 20224 min read


10 Years of Therapy by Hannah Booth- a summary
This is a blog which refers to an article in The Guardian by Hannah Booth on Saturday 30th April. She shares her experience of 10 years...
Nicola Shelley
May 24, 20224 min read


Light and Support in Difficult Times.
I wanted to start talking about this family. This week I have been glued to the news of *Nazanin Zhagari's Ratcliffe's release from her 6...
Nicola Shelley
Mar 17, 20222 min read


Relative Privation- what is it and how does it affect you?
A short blog on something I've been thinking about a lot and only recently found there was a name for it! Relative privation I came...
Nicola Shelley
Mar 8, 20222 min read
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